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How to Stop Emotional Eating
Overcoming the Craving to Snack Mindlessly
Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

If you want to stop emotional eating, you need to be honest with yourself about why you're snacking mindlessly. To overcome cravings, you must identify what you're really feeling -- and cope with your feelings differently. All the weight loss tips in the world won't help you stop eating emotionally unless you know why you're compelled to snack mindlessly!

If you're really struggling with emotional eating, consider joining a group such as Food Addicts Anonymous.

Overcoming Emotional Eating: What Are You Really Hungry For?
Physical and emotional hunger feel different. To learn the difference, let yourself get really physically hungry. When your stomach starts growling and you feel light-headed, then you're physically hungry. To stop emotional eating, you need to recognize when you're emotionally hungry versus physically hungry.

As an emotional eater, you may not often allow yourself to get physically hungry. You eat to soothe yourself, celebrate, mourn, socialize or relieve boredom. Emotional eaters don't wait for bodies or stomachs to signal meal time. To stop emotional eating, you must eat to satisfy physical hunger -- and not slip into mindless snacking.

Learn the Difference Between Physical and Emotional Hunger
  • Emotional hunger can develop suddenly, or it can be an accumulation of your day: snubbed by a colleague, betrayed by a friend, leaving your reluctant child at daycare, losing a business contract. At the end of the day all you want to do is mindlessly eat a bag of chips, tub of ice cream or crates of take-out Chinese food – and stare at the tv.
  • Emotional eaters don't listen to their bodies. To stop emotional eating, you must tune in to the cues.
  • Emotional hunger isn't related to time. That is, you can feel emotionally hungry in the middle of the night, at three in the afternoon, or during the Late Show. Emotional eaters may mindlessly eat more at non-mealtimes than at mealtimes.
  • Emotional hunger – and emotional eating – often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. You could stop emotional eating if you deal with those feelings.
  • Emotional eaters don't feel content or pleasantly satisfied after they eat. They feel sick.
  • Emotional eaters still feel empty after they've eaten. To stop emotional eating, you must learn to satisfy your emotional hunger other ways.

Overcoming Cravings: Do You Want Ice Cream or Someone to Talk To?
When you're struggling with a craving or feel driven to eat mindlessly, stop for a moment. How are you feeling? Sad, overwhelmed, angry, hurt, rejected, hopeless, scared? To stop emotional eating, find ways to express your feelings instead of eating. Call a friend, go for a walk, write, talk to a therapist, do Yoga, weed the garden, or clean the bathroom. Turn away from mindlessly eating food to feeling your true feelings.

8 Tips to Stop Emotional Eating:
  1. Learn the difference between physical and emotional hunger, which is the difference between eating to fill a physical need and eating emotionally.
  2. Eat slowly and listen to your body for clues that you're physically satisfied.
  3. Don't eat mindlessly in front of the tv.
  4. Don't deprive yourself of foods you love – just don't overdo it.
  5. Don't eat in bed or on the sofa. Eat at the kitchen table. Stop emotional eating by eating in the same place all the time.
  6. Treat your body with respect: nourish it, move it around, listen to it, and pamper it. Tune in to your body to stop emotional eating.
  7. Look for connections between the events in your day and your cravings for food. Identify the triggers that push you over the line and make you want to eat mindlessly (eg, fights with your partner or child).
  8. Deal with your triggers. If you can't cut them from your life entirely, find better ways to cope with your feelings. Eating mindlessly makes things worse.

Though these tips to stop emotional eating may seem difficult at first, they will become habit after a few weeks! With practice and time, you can overcome your cravings.


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